It's funny how ur lifetime bestfriend flips and started telling facts and fictions to others, just to satisfy his/her own insecurity and self-esteem.
And yet, u never question ur undying love and loyalty towards that person.
Not just because u've shared so much time and memories together, but adamantly on the trust and a lifetime iron-clad hope on having the person to "snap out of it" and realize the reality revolving around.
Broken relationships will never go back to the same state again. But what if the relationship and bond created was only "broken" by one party, while you did nothing to contribute to the chipped relationship? The one that broke the relationship did it on his/her own, and created a barrier him/herself out of own paranoia, subsequently blaming you, THE bestie, for the "fantasized-hurtful-agendas"? Who is it to blame then?
You've tried so hard to resolve things...even had heart-to-heart talks.
The "talk" somehow led ur bestie to open up and spill out dissatisfactions.
Things looked good after that.
But it turns out that, few days after, ur bestie started telling others that he/she did it just to satisfy YOU, and that the talk brought no significance to his/her life.
And yet, you, THE bestie, whom then found out about it, continues loving the person for whom he/she has been, is, and will be.
Is that love, or is that stupidity?.
I don't know. Coz someone told me that I was never good at judging love and loyalty.
So you tell me.
Saturday, June 21, 2008
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it's hard to distinguish sincerity and pure white lies. end of the day, we have to ask ourselves.
"do we want friends who are supporters who obliged to lie inorder to satisfy our wants, or those who would slam u with cold-hard facts which would lead to disliking?"
an age old question yet to be answered.
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